Trusting Your Journey – Confidence as a Feeling, Not a Measurement
Confidence is often mistaken for an outcome—something we achieve after enough success. But for the Intuitive Feeler, confidence is an emotional state, something felt deeply rather than merely understood intellectually. It is built not just through repetition but through meaning, personal connection, and self-trust.
Think about a time when you felt completely in flow—where everything clicked and you knew, deep down, that you were doing exactly what you were meant to be doing. That is confidence. It’s not something external; it’s an internal knowing.
Many endurance athletes struggle with confidence because they view it as a destination, waiting for race results or flawless workouts to confirm it. But true confidence comes from within. It is cultivated through preparation, trust, and connection with yourself, not just external validation.
How Confidence Grows for the Intuitive Feeler
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Emotional Connection to Training: You perform best when your training feels meaningful. Confidence is stronger when you link each session to something bigger—your personal growth, your sense of purpose, or even a greater cause.
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Self-Trust Over Self-Doubt: You may have moments of self-doubt, wondering if you’re doing enough or if you’re truly capable. Confidence isn’t the absence of doubt; it’s choosing to move forward despite it.
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Remembering Past Strength: Your past struggles are proof of your resilience. Reflecting on previous breakthroughs and how you overcame difficulties will reinforce your belief in yourself.
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The Emotional Signature of Confidence: Confidence is not just in your head—it’s a full-body experience. It has a posture, a breath pattern, a sensation in the chest. Recognizing how confidence feels in your body allows you to summon it when needed.
Emotional Anchors: Your Confidence Toolbox
The strongest confidence-building technique for the Intuitive Feeler is creating an “emotional anchor”—a memory, mantra, or symbol that grounds you in your power.
- Memory: Think of a time when you felt unstoppable. What was happening? Who were you with? How did it feel in your body?
- Mantra: Choose a short phrase that evokes strength. It should feel powerful, not just sound good. Examples: “I have everything I need.” or “I was made for this.”
- Symbol: A physical item (a bracelet, a certain color, a written word on your wrist) can act as a reminder of your confidence.
When doubt creeps in, return to your anchor. Confidence is not about logic—it’s about feeling safe, strong, and ready.
